Debunking Common Myths About Infertility and IVF

Infertility is medically classified as a disease of the male or female reproductive system, defined as the inability to achieve conception after 12 months of regular unprotected intercourse. It affects around 1 in 6 couples worldwide, according to the World Health Organization, which is roughly around 17.5% of the adult population globally. 

But while infertility is recognized as a medical condition, it’s also so much more than just a diagnosis. For many, it is a vulnerable and often misunderstood experience in ways that statistics and definitions can’t fully capture. From assumptions about who experiences infertility to misconceptions about how IVF works, these myths make individuals navigating an emotionally and physically challenging journey feel shameful and confused. 

Despite increased awareness and recent findings in research, discussions around infertility and IVF remain clouded by outdated beliefs, misinformation, and social stigma. In this article, we will address and correct some of the most persistent myths surrounding infertility and IVF. Whether you're facing fertility challenges yourself or simply want to better understand what others may be going through, a more accurate understanding of these topics can foster greater empathy and informed support. 

Myth #1 Infertility is a Woman’s Disease 

Truth: Infertility affects both men and women equally. In approximately 50% of couples, the male partner is either the sole cause or a contributing cause of infertility. Among these cases, roughly 20% have male infertility as the only identified cause, while in 30–40% of cases, infertility is attributed to factors from both partners. To ensure proper diagnosis and treatment, it is important that both partners are evaluated for infertility. 

Myth #2 IVF Treatment Always Results in Twins or More 

Truth:  When IVF was new, fertility specialists would transfer multiple embryos to improve success rates, which increased the risk of multiple pregnancies, and miscarriages. However, IVF success now depends more on embryo quality and patient diagnosis than on the number of embryos transferred. In fact, recent studies show that transferring multiple embryos can reduce pregnancy chances by up to 27%.  

Today, most clinics use single embryo transfers, selecting one good quality embryo for implantation. While multiple embryos can still be transferred in specific cases, this is only done with the patient’s informed consent, often to improve the chances of pregnancy when medically appropriate. 

Myth #3 Infertility only affects older women 

Truth: While age does play a role in fertility, younger individuals can also have fertility issues due to conditions like PCOS, or endometriosis. Additionally, it’s important to understand that ovarian age doesn’t always match chronological age. Some individuals may experience diminished ovarian reserve (fewer or lower-quality eggs) even in their 20s or early 30s. Fortunately, a blood test measuring AMH and FSH levels can provide a clear picture of your ovarian reserve. Early evaluation and intervention can make a meaningful difference in your options and outcomes. 

Myth #4: IVF Is the Only Solution for Infertility 

Truth: In vitro fertilization (IVF) is one of the most well-known fertility treatments, but it's not the only option. The right treatment depends on your situation—and that’s why speaking with a fertility specialist is so important. 

At the Center for Human Reproduction (CHR), we take a personalized, evidence-based approach to fertility care. While we offer IVF services, we also specialize in a wide range of alternative and complementary treatments that may be more appropriate for certain patients. 

Myth #5: It’s Too Late to Have a Healthy Baby After 40 

Truth: While it is true that fertility declines with age, it is possible to after 40. Some women conceive naturally, while others turn to fertility treatments like IVF or donor eggs. At the Center for Human Reproduction (CHR), we specialize in treating women over 40 and those with complex fertility challenges. Our treatments are designed to optimize outcomes for each patient, and we ensure patients are fully informed about their cycle, and potential outcomes. With personalized fertility treatment and proper prenatal care, many women in their forties and fifties go on to have healthy pregnancies and babies. 

Myth #6 IVF Treatment Guarantees a Baby 

Truth: IVF significantly increases the chances of pregnancy, but it does not always guarantee success. Some patients may require multiple cycles, before conceiving. It is a very emotional journey, as they navigate through many periods of waiting and uncertainty. While success rates are an important measure, they should be considered alongside the kinds of patients a clinic treats. At the Center for Human Reproduction (CHR), we specialize in helping women with complex fertility challenges—often those who need multiple IVF cycles. 

If you are someone who has gone through multiple IVF cycles, we hear you, we recognize your strength and we are here to support you in this journey.